Apple-Pear Crumble and the Pursuit of Pleasure

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Pleasure is so… well, enjoyable! Is there anything better than a Sunday morning cuddle with your partner, a delicious meal served in front of a roaring fire, or an ice cream cone with your kids on a hot summers day? Pleasure is so luxurious and beautiful we’re naturally drawn to it. But when your pursuit of pleasure goes haywire, it can lead to some painful and uncomfortable issues.

Pleasure is the driving force of the Id, the part of your psyche driven to satisfy basic needs such as sexual impulses, appetite, and comfort. Within the realm of your unconscious mind, it demands immediate gratification making certain pleasure-seeking behaviors hard to resist. If you struggle with a nightly pint of Chunky Monkey, blame your Id.

Working with clients, I inevitably discuss the importance of pleasure. If they’re addicted to dieting, prone to periodic and drastic dietary changes such as eating flavorless baked chicken and boiled broccoli, they’re bound to boomerang back to pizza because they’re denying their innate need for pleasure. Instead I encourage them to look for satisfying and delicious ways to make healthy eating enjoyable in order to achieve and sustain their health goals.

There are other ways though, to satisfy the pleasure principle that have nothing to do with food. Embracing these luxuries regularly will help you delight this primal need.

My mother is a great example of this. Pleasure lives at her core yet she never struggled with her weight, never had an addiction and exhibits such restraint, she can make a Chunky candy bar, weighing all of 1.25 ounces last for days. But Chunky’s are a treat for my mom, not an impulse. Her pleasure comes in more profound, soulful ways and her outlets are limitless.

To understand the primary way my mother finds joy, check out my blog about my cousins wedding hosted in my parents backyard. A more creative and talented gardener does not exist and she regularly brings clippings of her gorgeous blooms indoors to brighten a room. In her home good china is used and expensive furniture sat on regularly, breakage or ruin be damned. These things are to be enjoyed she always says, not put on display worthy only of some elusive and unknown occasion. And years ago, when she received letters from her sisters in Cuba, well, that pleasure could carry her for days such was her thrill. I’m convinced that my mother’s ability to feel bliss in such simple ways is the exact reason she’s so measured in the hedonistic pleasures that undermine so many of us such as eating and drinking.

It took a while for me to learn these lessons because let’s face it, ice cream is too good to pass up. Or it used to be. Somewhere along the way I learned to replace the immediate gratification of ice cream with more satisfying and soul enhancing pleasures that dot my life. When I wake before dawn I light a candle to bring soft light and warmth into my kitchen. At dusk, I’ll burn incense to close the day, and hardly a cold night passes that I don’t light a fire. Sure, I still want a treat from time to time but when I do, I make it from scratch, enjoying the pleasure of creating something delicious and satisfying.

If your efforts to embrace a healthy diet are being thwarted by habitual impulses of the Id, consider ways you may include enjoyment in your life that have nothing to do with food. What you may find in time is that these simple joys are profoundly pleasurable.

I’d love to hear from you! How do you derive pleasure? Do you find joy in simplicity and beauty? Does your garden, kitchen, children or a hobby give you a thrill? Let me know in the comments below.

Wishing you a blissful week!
xo
B

Apple-Pear Crumble

Here’s a delicious recipe that is pleasurable and healthy.

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Filling Ingredients

  • 2 ripe pears; peeled, cored and sliced thin
  • 4 small-medium apples, peeled, cored and sliced thin
  • 1 tbsp grated ginger
  • ½ tbsp lemon zest
  • 1 tbsp lemon juice
  • ¼ cup slivered almonds
  • 3 tbsp grade B maple syrup
  • 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon
  • ½ teaspoon nutmeg
  • ¼ cup water

Topping Ingredients

  • ¼ cup almond flour
  • ¼ teaspoon baking powder
  • ¼ cup slivered almonds
  • ¼ cup shredded coconut flakes
  • 2 tbsp honey or maple syrup
  • 3 tbsp coconut oil

Directions

  • Preheat oven to 375’
  • Mix the filling ingredients together well and fill a 9×9 baking dish evenly with the mixture. Set aside.
  • Mix all but the coconut oil and maple syrup for the topping ingredients together until well blended. Then using clean hands, massage the wet ingredients into the dry until chunky and coarse.
  • Spread the topping over the filling until evenly distributed.
  • Bake for 35-45 minutes. Allow to cool.
  • Serve on your finest china, with a nice cup of tea for maximum pleasure ☺

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6 comments on “Apple-Pear Crumble and the Pursuit of Pleasure

  1. Janet

    Looks delicious! I am not eating almonds or almond flour. What other gluten free flours would you recommend?
    I enjoy finding new recipes that are both gluten free and dairy free as well as sugar free. When I prepare something new and delicious I feel like a whole new window has opened up for me! It makes me feel young and creative!

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    1. Barbara Mendez RPh MS Post author

      Hi Janet! You can try gluten free oats as an alternative. The almonds aren’t really necessary to substitute.
      And I am so happy to know you’re embracing the reactive aspects of cooking… it’s a good mindset to adopt 🙂
      ENjoy!
      B

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  2. Iraida Mendez

    Thank you, dearest for your loving words, It seems that you have inherited a lot of my ways!. I give you a lot more credit, because what I do and feel comes naturally, it is the way I am, but you work hard to overcome what you don’t like about yourself!. As for me, there is Nothing that I don’t like and love about you, I am soooo proud of you, Sometimes I think I could burst with pride. I don’t want to embarrass you and bore your readers. To me, you are the best person I have ever known!.
    I adore you!.
    Mom

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  3. Tony

    Truthfully honest Barbara, great post!

    I have recently discovered that a prerequisite to experiencing new pleasures, is to gain awareness of both that which I already know and that which I don’t, and a soulful honesty that even the greatest pleasures to my Id, in time, become mundane. This has precipitated for me a quest for new experiences, and now I ask myself before I consume anything two questions; one, “Do I already know what the experience will be?” and two, “Will the experience nourish and edify me is any way?” If my answers are No and Yes or Yes and Yes then I’ll eat whatever it is that I’m contemplating, however if the answer combination is Yes and No then I simply move on since I will gain nothing sustainable. Through this practice I have discovered untold treasures to my senses; i.e. adding Baby Shanghai Bok Choy to homemade chicken soup and the richness of flavoring it adds. This practice, I assure, will help make the movie of your life less like “Groundhog’s Day” and more like the action adventure that we all dream our lives will be.

    Thank you for again sharing your wisdom with us all.

    T

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    1. Barbara Mendez RPh MS Post author

      It’s been lovely to watch your transformation T and you inspire me daily with your journey. I am so glad to know you in this life and have you be such a wonderful friend. We’re still in it “for better or worse” although it doesn’t necessarily look like we imagined back in 1994 🙂 But it does get better with time no matter what the relationship~
      I love you!
      xo

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